提出轻量级方法STEP，让图像视频识别更懂动作顺序。

Fine-grained understanding of human actions is essential for safe and intuitive human--robot interaction. We study the challenge of recognizing nearly symmetric actions, such as picking up vs. placing down a tool or opening vs. closing a drawer. These actions are common in close human-robot collaboration, yet they are rare and largely overlooked in mainstream vision frameworks. Pretrained vision foundation models (VFMs) are often adapted using probing, valued in robotics for its efficiency and low data needs, or parameter-efficient fine-tuning (PEFT), which adds temporal modeling through adapters or prompts. However, our analysis shows that probing is permutation-invariant and blind to frame order, while PEFT is prone to overfitting on smaller HRI datasets, and less practical in real-world robotics due to compute constraints. To address this, we introduce STEP (Self-attentive Temporal Embedding Probing), a lightweight extension to probing that models temporal order via frame-wise positional encodings, a global CLS token, and a simplified attention block. Compared to conventional probing, STEP improves accuracy by 4--10% on nearly symmetric actions and 6--15% overall across action recognition benchmarks in human-robot-interaction, industrial assembly, and driver assistance. Beyond probing, STEP surpasses heavier PEFT methods and even outperforms fully fine-tuned models on all three benchmarks, establishing a new state-of-the-art. Code and models will be made publicly available: https://github.com/th-nesh/STEP.