机器人通过观察人与物体交互自动判断何时主动协助，更像真人搭档。

Assistance in collaborative manipulation is often initiated by user instructions, making high-level reasoning request-driven. In fluent human teamwork, however, partners often infer the next helpful step from the observed outcome of an action rather than waiting for instructions. Motivated by this, we introduce a shift from request-driven assistance to event-driven proactive assistance, where robot actions are initiated by workspace state transitions induced by human--object interactions rather than user-provided task instructions. To this end, we propose an event-driven framework that tracks interaction progress with an event monitor and, upon event completion, extracts stabilized pre/post snapshots that characterize the resulting state transition. Given the stabilized snapshots, the planner analyzes the implied state transition to infer a task-level goal and decide whether to intervene; if so, it generates a sequence of assistive actions. To make outputs executable and verifiable, we restrict actions to a set of action primitives and reference objects via integer IDs. We evaluate the framework on a real tabletop number-block collaboration task, demonstrating that explicit pre/post state-change evidence improves proactive completion on solvable scenes and appropriate waiting on unsolvable ones.