提出三粒度记忆框架，让大模型长期对话更懂细节、会推理。

To enable reliable long-term interaction, LLM agents require a memory system that can faithfully store, efficiently retrieve, and deeply reason over accumulated dialogue history. Most existing methods adopt an extracted fact based paradigm: handcrafted static prompts compress raw dialogues into atomic facts, which are then stored, matched, and injected into downstream reasoning. Nevertheless, such fact-centric designs inevitably discard fine-grained details in original dialogues and fail to support deep reasoning over scattered isolated facts. Moreover, static prompts cannot maintain consistent extraction granularity across diverse dialogue styles. To address these limitations, we propose TriMem, which maintains three coexisting representation granularities, including raw dialogue segments anchored by source identifiers for storage fidelity, extracted atomic facts for efficient memory retrieval, synthesized profiles that aggregate dispersed facts into holistic semantic understanding for deep reasoning. We further adopt TextGrad-based prompt optimization, which iteratively refines extraction and profiling prompts via response quality feedback, achieving lifelong evolution without any parameter updating. Extensive experiments on LoCoMo and PerLTQA across multiple LLM backbones demonstrate that TriMem consistently outperforms strong memory baselines. The code is available at https://TMLR-TriMem.github.io .