让大模型记忆像橡皮筋一样可伸缩，自动分配记忆资源提升推理能力。

Long-term memory is essential for LLM agents to reason coherently across extended interactions, personalize responses, and reuse past experience. However, existing memory-augmented methods typically treat memory as a fixed resource: text-space approaches concatenate retrieved memories into the context window, causing substantial token overhead and sensitivity to noisy evidence, while latent-space approaches reduce textual cost but still rely on rigid retrieval or fixed-capacity memory interfaces. This creates a mismatch between query-dependent memory utility and fixed memory allocation. We propose ElasticMem, a memory-augmented LLM framework that learns to use memory as an elastic latent resource. ElasticMem builds an offline latent memory bank with retrieval keys and content caches, retrieves memories adaptively from the reasoner's hidden state, assigns each retrieved memory a variable latent budget through a learned policy, and injects selected latent states as soft memory tokens for generation. The full memory-use process is optimized with downstream task rewards through group-relative policy optimization. We evaluate ElasticMem on MemorySuite, covering memory-intensive QA and embodied agent control. Across Qwen2.5-3B-Instruct and Qwen2.5-7B-Instruct backbones, ElasticMem improves weighted average QA accuracy by 26.2% and 24.6%, and improves ALFWorld success rate by 66.3% and 27.2%, respectively, over the strongest baselines, while achieving the lowest ALFWorld token cost. Ablations and qualitative analyses further show that adaptive retrieval and elastic budget allocation help ElasticMem prioritize useful evidence and transferable plans beyond rigid cosine similarity. Our code for ElasticMem will be released at https://github.com/ulab-uiuc/ElasticMem.