用Transformer学习电容矩阵，跨工艺节点迁移能力强。

As capacitance extraction accuracy of rule-based pattern matching becomes difficult to sustain at advanced nodes, a growing trend emerges to develop deep-learning-based 2D capacitance models. However, existing MLP- and CNN-based methods constrain their input to fixed metal-layer combinations in a specific process node, limiting their usability in practice. Recognizing the inherent similarity between capacitance matrix and the prevailing attention mechanism, we propose AttentionCap, a customized Transformer for capacitance matrix learning, with a Gram representation framework, a physics-aligned symmetric-attention output layer, and a novel normalized Laplacian loss. We also introduce a process-node embedding to enable multi-node learning. Trained on synthetic data, AttentionCap attains 0.67\%/3.99\% self/coupling-capacitance error on unseen real designs under a multi-layer and multi-node setting, surpassing the CNN-Cap baseline with 4.6$\times$/5.7$\times$ lower self/coupling error and 192$\times$ faster inference speed. A pretrained AttentionCap accurately transfers to an unseen node with only 5K samples and 4K finetuning steps. With sufficient accuracy on unseen real designs and strong transferability to new process nodes, AttentionCap offers highly practical value for modern EDA workflows. Code and data are available at https://github.com/THU-numbda/AttentionCap.