提出轻量绑定钩子，让冻结检测器更准地对齐语言查询与图像区域。

Visual grounding often fails even when the target object is present in the proposal pool, because the language-side referent is bound to the wrong region. We study this binding failure under frozen perception and ask whether an explicit query--region alignment hook, together with a perception-grounded abstention mechanism, can improve faithful grounding without retraining the detector or the vision-language backbone. HKVLM freezes a language-aligned open-vocabulary detector for localization and learns a lightweight hook that maps referential query embeddings to detector proposals in a shared space; a verifier abstains when no region sufficiently supports the query. We prove an exact proposal-level diagnostic decomposition, $(1-\mathrm{SeeErr})(1-\mathrm{SayErr})$, separating proposal-coverage failures from conditional binding failures, and a monotonicity result that characterizes the faithfulness--recall trade-off induced by abstention. Across RefCOCO, RefCOCO+, RefCOCOg, and POPE, HKVLM improves over untrained and trained matched-perception binding controls and substantially reduces hallucination through abstention. Strong coordinate-decoding and end-to-end fine-tuned baselines remain much higher in raw grounding accuracy, and a reasoning-stress set exposes binding as the main current bottleneck. We therefore present HKVLM as a diagnostic and mechanism-level study of query--region binding under frozen perception, not as an absolute localization leader.