通过置信度反馈提升激光损伤点匹配精度，解决真假损伤难区分问题。

Online inspection images of final optics in high-power laser facilities contain pseudo-damage sites that closely resemble true damage sites. Determining the authenticity of online-detected sites is therefore difficult and requires accurate matching to offline ground-truth sites. However, this matching remains highly challenging due to limited match-discriminative features, local geometric distortions, and numerous distractor sites. Existing matching models mainly suppress distractors implicitly through loss-function supervision. We propose a confidence-feedback-weighted graph matching network that requires only damage-site centroid coordinates as input. It estimates node matchability confidence from each round of matching scores and feeds it back as a reliability weight to guide subsequent edge-feature aggregation, thereby suppressing distractor propagation and enhancing cross-graph discriminability. Within this framework, a geometric consistency constraint calibrates spurious high-confidence matchability estimates, while a hard-example mining loss improves discrimination between structurally similar sites. Experiments on our Complex-Scene dataset show that the proposed method achieves a matching F1-score of 96.36$\%$ with robust and efficient performance.