针对推荐系统中嵌入与注意力崩溃问题，提出谱感知Transformer提升模型性能与可扩展性。

Transformer architectures have achieved remarkable success across diverse domains; however, directly applying their standard self-attention mechanism to recommendation often yields suboptimal performance, sometimes even trailing behind well-designed simple recommendation models. In this paper, we reveal that this performance bottleneck stems from severe embedding and attention collapse unique to recommendation scenarios. The heterogeneity and long-tail nature of recommendation data lead to a severe spectral collapse dominated by a few principal singular values. We further theoretically demonstrate that this triggers a vicious cycle in recommendation model's forward and backward propagation, which accelerates embedding and attention collapse and limits the model's scaling capability with increased depth. To address these issues, we propose SpecFormer, a novel Spectral-Aware Transformer designed for mitigating embedding and attention collapse in recommendation. Specifically, SpecFormer introduces 1) a Learnable Spectral Softening module to dynamically smooth the singular values distribution of the input token embeddings; 2) a Spectrum-softened Attention mechanism to model feature interaction under a more uniform spectral distribution space; 3) a Spectral Residual Position Encoding via Taylor expansion of singular values, explicitly providing a spectral inductive bias for feature interactions. Extensive experiments on one industrial and two public datasets demonstrate that SpecFormer significantly outperforms state-of-the-art baselines. Notably, SpecFormer has been successfully deployed in a real-world commercial recommender system and exhibits exceptional scaling capabilities: stacking SpecFormer layers actively improves the attention effective rank and recommendation performance.