让搜索模型自动学习社交语境下的相关性，提升社交平台搜索效果。

The rapid growth of online social platforms has transformed communication and information retrieval, giving rise to social search, where queries-titles are typically expressed in informal, community-specific language. While large language models provide strong general-purpose semantic understanding, their effectiveness in social search is constrained by contextual discrepancy, data scarcity, and behavior-driven dynamics. To address these challenges, we propose the Autonomous Social-Aware Relevance Learning (ASARL), a fully automated framework that integrates multi-agent data curation with staged model training. ASARL leverages a collaborative agent system: ReasonAgent generates interpretable relevance labels grounded in social attributes, CriticAgent validates and ensures logical consistency, and GenAgent augments long-tail data through synthetic query-title pairs. Building on the curated dataset, ASARL employs three-stage training: Social Context Training (SCT) to capture social language patterns, Preference-Guided Optimization (PGO) to align model predictions with behavioral signals, and Social Distillation (SD) to transfer these improvements into compact models for efficient deployment. Extensive offline and online experiments on the QQ search platform demonstrate significant improvements in both offline relevance metrics and online user engagement indicators, along with enhanced annotation efficiency. These results validate the effectiveness of combining autonomous, socially grounded data governance with preference-aligned training in practical search systems.