用AI分析300份简历，发现工程师软技能多靠叙述而非关键词表达。

Soft skills shape collaboration among ML engineers, data scientists, and software engineers building ML-enabled systems, yet what we know about them comes almost entirely from the demand side. Job advertisements, surveys, and hiring manager interviews capture what employers ask for. How candidates themselves articulate these competencies has not been studied, and existing CV-mining work is both keyword-based, so it cannot see skills conveyed through narrative, and descriptive, reporting frequency rankings without testing whether group differences exceed sampling variation. We close both gaps. Using a balanced corpus of 300 curated CVs spanning the three roles, we extract explicitly listed and implicitly narrated soft skills with an LLM-based pipeline validated against a human-annotated ground truth, a distinction that existing extractors were not designed to make. We then convert the demand-side literature's claims into 13 falsifiable hypotheses about role signatures, seniority progression, and disclosure style, and test them with effect sizes under family-wise error control, so that candidate-side data can corroborate or contradict the demand-side account rather than merely illustrate it. Eleven hypotheses are supported, one partially, and one refuted. Candidates disclose soft skills through narrative rather than keyword lists by roughly three to one, and most so for the competencies employers value most: leadership, coordination, and mentoring (88-96% narrative). Seniority nearly triples the odds of articulating leadership. That competency, assumed universal in prior work, is articulated by software engineers at half the rate of their peers. Technical candidates do articulate soft skills, but a keyword-based screening systematically misses them.