用语言描述交通场景，让智能体学会识别威胁并自适应驾驶。

Natural-language-based scenario generation offers an intuitive means of describing rare and complex driving interactions, yet it is still uncertain whether training with language-structured data leads to truly adaptive control policies. We propose Language-Structured Relational Q-Learning, instantiated through an Ego-Centric Relational Q-Network (ERQ-Net), which jointly learns inter-vehicle relevance and action values from dynamic traffic graphs. Language descriptions define surrounding-vehicle behaviours during training, while prompts and semantic actor roles are hidden from the policy. ERQ-Net must therefore infer threat relevance solely from observable kinematics and interactions. Across 2,500 safety-critical scenarios, language-structured training improves test success from 49-52% to 55-58% and increases adversary-focused attention from 1.2x to 2.1x, demonstrating emergent threat awareness. However, this representational gain does not consistently translate into adaptive control: trained policies perform similarly to the best constant action, while a portfolio of simple policies solves 76% of scenarios. We formalise this discrepancy as a recognition-control gap and show that reward reweighting and margin shaping do not eliminate the resulting policy collapse. Evaluations of realism, criticality, semantic accuracy, and transfer of state-interface representations to CARLA further highlight both the strengths and the constraints of language-structured relational policy learning in safety-critical driving scenarios.