用方向可变的分布代替固定点，解决多标签哈希中的梯度冲突问题。

Supervised proxy-based deep cross-modal hashing has become the dominant paradigm for large-scale retrieval. However, prevalent methods model class proxies as deterministic points in the embedding space. This rigid assumption causes severe gradient conflicts in multi-label scenarios, where gradient conflicts arising from label co-occurrence lead to severe gradient contention and optimization collapse. To resolve this, we propose Kent-based Distributional Proxy Hashing (KDPH), a novel framework that shifts proxy representation from static points to flexible anisotropic Kent distributions on the hypersphere. Unlike point proxies that must shift their positions to accommodate conflicting gradients, KDPH absorbs these conflicts by dynamically adjusting its directional variance. This allows the proxy to maintain a stable semantic mean direction while stretching to cover diverse label correlations. Furthermore, to ensure stable training of these geometric parameters, we derive a tailored loss function incorporating the Cayley transform to enforce strict orthogonality. To the best of our knowledge, KDPH is the first framework to successfully introduce the Kent distributions into cross-modal hashing. Experiments on three benchmark datasets demonstrate that KDPH mitigates proxy collapse and chaotic oscillation, significantly outperforms state-of-the-art methods. Code is available at https://github.com/Senmo996/KDPH-official-code.