解决机器人语言操作中的指代混淆问题，提升复杂场景下动作准确性。

Vision-language-action (VLA) models have substantially advanced language-guided robot manipulation, yet reliable execution still hinges on identifying which physical object an instruction refers to. In cluttered scenes containing repeated objects, ambiguous anchors, or frame-dependent spatial terms, a robot can execute a geometrically valid action on a semantically compatible but unintended instance; we call this failure an identity switch. The referent is jointly determined by three coupled latent variables: the target, the anchor, and the reference frame, so committing to any one of them before execution turns residual ambiguity into a silent and irreversible error. We propose RefGuard, an identity-aware grounding framework that delays commitment by maintaining a joint posterior over all three variables. RefGuard builds a frame-conditioned object-centric scene graph from RGB-D observations, separating frame-independent geometry from directional relations, and routes the posterior through a decision policy that executes, clarifies, reobserves, or aborts. On a real UF850 arm, RefGuard records no identity switch on any ambiguity-stress trial and executes correctly on 90.0% of them, whereas fine-tuned VLA and LLM (Large Language Model)-based baselines switch identity in 33-46% of the same trials, while retaining 93.3% success on unambiguous scenes and recovering from post-grounding scene changes in 86.7% of trials. On a 3200-episode procedural suite, it raises correct execution on solvable instructions from 56.6% to 80.5% over the ablation that commits to the anchor and frame before the target, while deferring less often (19.5% vs. 43.4%).